<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Porscha Sterling]]></title><description><![CDATA[I am a best-selling authors that sells books on my websites. All of my books have landed on the best-sellers list. I specialize in Black Romance.]]></description><link>https://porschasterling.wixsite.com/porschasterling2023/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Sun, 24 May 2026 20:00:39 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://porschasterling.wixsite.com/porschasterling2023/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[He May Feel Like Home... But He'll Never Build One With You]]></title><description><![CDATA[This post explores why women stay emotionally attached to men they already know are wrong for them, especially when the chemistry feels intense enough to overshadow reality.]]></description><link>https://porschasterling.wixsite.com/porschasterling2023/post/he-may-feel-like-home-but-he-ll-never-build-one-with-you</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a0de1b443dc65892e5cd160</guid><category><![CDATA[Exclusive Reads]]></category><category><![CDATA[Love & Relationship]]></category><pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2026 18:18:50 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/96dbbe_dd63a7b1a7f34ad699bde167d831890b~mv2.webp/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Porscha Sterling</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Billionaire's Real Love: Cristian &#38; Roddy]]></title><description><![CDATA[Read chapter one of the Patreon exclusive release, The Billionaire's Real Love. This is a spin-off to the The Billionaire Next Door series and it features Cristian &#38; Roddy.]]></description><link>https://porschasterling.wixsite.com/porschasterling2023/post/the-billionaire-s-real-love-cristian-roddy</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a05fc772fe6e98eed4a070f</guid><category><![CDATA[Exclusive Reads]]></category><pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2026 16:51:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/96dbbe_78ab2b352dc24348b45c71ad310117c6~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Porscha Sterling</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Stop Giving Wife Energy to a Man Who Hasn’t Chosen You]]></title><description><![CDATA[If you weren’t on social media this weekend, let me catch you up real quick, because the timeline was loud about this one.

Meg Thee Stallion took to her Instagram stories and made it clear that her situation with Klay Thompson ended because of cheating. This post explores what women should do to avoid similar situations.]]></description><link>https://porschasterling.wixsite.com/porschasterling2023/post/stop-giving-wife-energy-to-a-man-who-hasn-t-chosen-you</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69ef909c15d16921748d5797</guid><pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2026 17:05:57 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/96dbbe_99f3cb533fd34d3781ef3468eeffe93c~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_860,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Porscha Sterling</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Does He Want You… Or Just Access to You?]]></title><description><![CDATA[There is a difference between a man who wants you and a man who wants access to you, and if you are not paying attention, it is easy to confuse the two because, in the beginning, they can look very similar. Both can be attentive. Both can be consistent for a period of time. Both can say the right things and show just enough effort to keep you engaged. But the intention behind that effort is not the same, and over time, that difference will show up in ways that are subtle at first and then...]]></description><link>https://porschasterling.wixsite.com/porschasterling2023/post/does-he-want-you-or-just-access-to-you</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69cc1123e7de3cb0060b29df</guid><pubDate>Tue, 31 Mar 2026 19:14:29 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/96dbbe_68a545aedd29402abbafcf32aea1b848~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Porscha Sterling</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Are We Choosing Love… or Just Trying Not to Get Played?]]></title><description><![CDATA[SheraSeven is a controversial American YouTuber and TikToker known for providing blunt dating advice focused on women marrying wealthy men, avoiding 50/50 relationships, and getting financial support. I heard a woman say, “Love don’t pay bills,” and what stood out to me wasn’t just the statement itself, but how easily it was accepted, because in a time where everything feels expensive, unstable, and uncertain, that mindset no longer sounds cold or cynical, it sounds realistic. Nobody is...]]></description><link>https://porschasterling.wixsite.com/porschasterling2023/post/are-we-choosing-love-or-just-trying-not-to-get-played</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69bfeaa56e2d8139248f445c</guid><pubDate>Sun, 22 Mar 2026 14:04:48 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/96dbbe_ff062ab039564e4e867e7ae5d9cbffcf~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_675,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Porscha Sterling</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[You Don’t Miss Them. You Miss Who You Were With Them.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Sometimes it's not your ex that you miss. It's the version of you that you were in the happiest times. You can still have that.]]></description><link>https://porschasterling.wixsite.com/porschasterling2023/post/you-don-t-miss-them-you-miss-who-you-were-with-them</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a4bbe960298c02e5bd6287</guid><category><![CDATA[Love & Relationship]]></category><pubDate>Sun, 01 Mar 2026 22:36:10 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/96dbbe_7456b240e2264f7c9fd6f18e6a852fca~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_736,h_920,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Porscha Sterling</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA['Where the Boys Come to Die' is Almost Here!]]></title><description><![CDATA[He told her that one day he would come to get her.  Tomorrow… it begins. I am so  excited about this drop. I literally dreamed the beginning of this storyline and immediately wrote it down as soon as I woke up. Honestly, I wasn’t expecting it to become what it was. It turned into something heavier. More layered. More emotionally complicated than I expected. This book is not a basic romance at all. It's definitely got thriller vibes. It’s going to make you feel very strong emotions: Hate....]]></description><link>https://porschasterling.wixsite.com/porschasterling2023/post/where-the-boys-come-to-die-is-almost-here</link><guid isPermaLink="false">699cdf1b9b838a9bc8760abd</guid><pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2026 23:21:07 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/96dbbe_d4d0d413feb54aca9ea628953f1935e5~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Porscha Sterling</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Wait is Over. Fallen 2: Sons of God]]></title><description><![CDATA[Hey everyone, Okay. So, let’s talk. Fallen 2: Sons of God  is officially done and ready. But... it’s not going on Amazon. I’ve decided to do something different with that series moving forward and move those releases to my website and Patreon. That space is where I get to build those worlds without limits and connect directly with the readers who really want them. If you have an active subscription on Patreon, you’ll get free access to these releases as well as all other exclusives content....]]></description><link>https://porschasterling.wixsite.com/porschasterling2023/post/the-wait-is-over-fallen-2-sons-of-god</link><guid isPermaLink="false">698fb70db5fb2c66253b61d0</guid><pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2026 00:56:52 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/96dbbe_518858c9eb8b4420a8fe4f6d1cc7e6a4~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_672,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Porscha Sterling</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Fallen: Sons of God is Free Right Now]]></title><description><![CDATA[Hey everyone, I wanted to let you know that Fallen: Sons of God  is currently free on Amazon . Link : Fallen: Sons of God If you haven’t read it yet, this is a good time to grab it and get caught up, especially since Part 2 releases this Friday, February 13th . Part 1 sets the foundation for the world, the characters, and what’s coming next. Part 2 goes deeper. As always, thank you for reading and supporting my work. I hope you enjoy it  Porscha]]></description><link>https://porschasterling.wixsite.com/porschasterling2023/post/fallen-sons-of-god-is-free-right-now</link><guid isPermaLink="false">698b4ab3d471d728ee6bf032</guid><pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2026 15:17:23 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/96dbbe_645b79865cb74f9687e457d6496f4352~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_768,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Porscha Sterling</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Black History Month at 100: What Happened to Black Love?]]></title><description><![CDATA[This post is about the ever-changing dynamics between black men and black women over the last 100 years.]]></description><link>https://porschasterling.wixsite.com/porschasterling2023/post/black-history-month-at-100-what-happened-to-black-love</link><guid isPermaLink="false">697fe414423a54390b95a4bb</guid><pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2026 00:23:42 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/96dbbe_0b04f2c85e6a41dd91147d5a9f1f1040~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_540,h_803,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Porscha Sterling</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[What Kristy &#38; Desmond’s Divorce Is Really Forcing Us to Confront]]></title><description><![CDATA[Cheating is often framed as a desire for more: more sex, more excitement, more validation. But just as often, it’s a desire for out. A way to force an ending when someone doesn’t have the courage, clarity, or integrity to end it cleanly. That’s the part people avoid talking about. This piece is written to examine the reasons relationships so often end in infidelity. ]]></description><link>https://porschasterling.wixsite.com/porschasterling2023/post/what-kristy-desmond-s-divorce-is-really-forcing-us-to-confront</link><guid isPermaLink="false">696e45c9e4340f7772b9dd71</guid><category><![CDATA[Love & Relationship]]></category><pubDate>Mon, 19 Jan 2026 15:01:11 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/96dbbe_af480fe42d4246fcb02328e3bcb1396d~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_686,h_386,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Porscha Sterling</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Grief of Illusion: What Cardi B’s Situation Is Forcing Us to Confront]]></title><description><![CDATA[This piece is about the grief that comes when you realize the person you thought you wanted was never aligned with who you actually are or who you’re willing to become.]]></description><link>https://porschasterling.wixsite.com/porschasterling2023/post/the-grief-of-illusion-what-cardi-b-s-situation-is-forcing-us-to-confront</link><guid isPermaLink="false">695c18807831e3f57103cbcf</guid><pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2026 16:20:08 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/96dbbe_00c8a1152de94bf7a59ef0ca19b2a410~mv2.webp/v1/fit/w_728,h_546,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Porscha Sterling</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why Slow Love Feels Hard in a Fast World]]></title><description><![CDATA[This is a blog post about slow love and why it's important to take your time in love.]]></description><link>https://porschasterling.wixsite.com/porschasterling2023/post/why-slow-love-feels-hard-in-a-fast-world</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6959969ca38f7651d6dabfa4</guid><category><![CDATA[Love & Relationship]]></category><pubDate>Sat, 03 Jan 2026 23:14:55 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/96dbbe_ce7fe1fd0d62442e9eac8e2aecd1db42~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_928,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Porscha Sterling</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Starting Before You’re Ready: When Love Still Feels Unfinished]]></title><description><![CDATA[This is a blog post about starting a new relationship before feeling that you're totally ready. ]]></description><link>https://porschasterling.wixsite.com/porschasterling2023/post/starting-before-you-re-ready-when-love-still-feels-unfinished</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6951bd3a6c6ab50b8de9df0b</guid><category><![CDATA[Love & Relationship]]></category><pubDate>Sun, 28 Dec 2025 23:49:17 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/96dbbe_617b5f3563474dcfba7a4db168a580aa~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_736,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Porscha Sterling</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Celebrating Christmas Without a Boo: Honoring the Season in Your Own Way]]></title><description><![CDATA[Celebrating Christmas without a partner can be hard. This post is for anyone spending Christmas alone. ]]></description><link>https://porschasterling.wixsite.com/porschasterling2023/post/celebrating-christmas-without-a-boo-honoring-the-season-in-your-own-way</link><guid isPermaLink="false">694446189a35e89d66c4d5de</guid><category><![CDATA[Love & Relationship]]></category><pubDate>Fri, 19 Dec 2025 12:00:29 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/96dbbe_a1c513680f944a28afd8b2894580af12~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Porscha Sterling</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[When God Gives You the Thing You Asked For… and You Panic Anyway]]></title><description><![CDATA[A raw, intimate reflection on what happens when you finally receive the love or blessing you asked for, but fear and old patterns make you want to run. This post explores self-sabotage, emotional growth, and how Neveah and Nasir in Fallen: Sons of God face the same crossroads. Tap in for truth, healing, and the start of their divine journey.]]></description><link>https://porschasterling.wixsite.com/porschasterling2023/post/when-god-gives-you-the-thing-you-asked-for-and-you-panic-anyway</link><guid isPermaLink="false">693076fdee21510c2ee89249</guid><category><![CDATA[Love & Relationship]]></category><pubDate>Wed, 03 Dec 2025 18:25:24 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/96dbbe_25fa8b43fdfa4a218f60c96da161b3cc~mv2.avif/v1/fit/w_1000,h_832,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Porscha Sterling</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Boundary, the Book, and Why I’m Not Dating Right Now]]></title><description><![CDATA[There’s something about a woman saying “I’m not dating right now” that seems to make some men uncomfortable. Not because it’s rude. Not...]]></description><link>https://porschasterling.wixsite.com/porschasterling2023/post/the-boundary-the-book-and-why-i-m-not-dating-right-now</link><guid isPermaLink="false">68b17d6049ea3775af7de39c</guid><category><![CDATA[Love & Relationship]]></category><pubDate>Fri, 29 Aug 2025 10:39:39 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/96dbbe_5999a03f6d094d6591f5340a7a117aa2~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Porscha Sterling</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Women Still Want Love... But We Don’t Chase It Anymore]]></title><description><![CDATA[We’re not bitter. We’re not closed off. We’re just done losing ourselves trying to keep someone else’s attention. There’s a version of...]]></description><link>https://porschasterling.wixsite.com/porschasterling2023/post/women-still-want-love-but-we-don-t-chase-it-anymore</link><guid isPermaLink="false">68950cd0778fcaf78d21cb28</guid><category><![CDATA[Love & Relationship]]></category><pubDate>Thu, 07 Aug 2025 21:10:44 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/96dbbe_49e689f75e5c4eafaee5972a1d5b6d08~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Porscha Sterling</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Still Love Them? You Can still Let Go  ]]></title><description><![CDATA[We tend to think love is the glue that keeps a relationship together. But sometimes, the most loving thing you can do is walk away. A lot...]]></description><link>https://porschasterling.wixsite.com/porschasterling2023/post/still-love-them-you-can-still-let-go</link><guid isPermaLink="false">688b39d0a1ccd6aa398c3a09</guid><category><![CDATA[Love & Relationship]]></category><pubDate>Fri, 01 Aug 2025 19:48:25 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/96dbbe_a68a49b5fa9b4a5487c041148277042c~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_736,h_740,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Porscha Sterling</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Let Go and Let God: What the Law of Detachment Really Teaches You (Especially During Mercury Retrograde)]]></title><description><![CDATA[I was watching this episode of the Know Thyself  podcast—an interview with Sadhguru—and he said something that made me pause the video...]]></description><link>https://porschasterling.wixsite.com/porschasterling2023/post/let-go-and-let-god-what-the-law-of-detachment-really-teaches-you-especially-during-mercury-retrogr</link><guid isPermaLink="false">687e3645243cf77069efee6c</guid><category><![CDATA[Love & Relationship]]></category><pubDate>Mon, 21 Jul 2025 15:35:16 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/96dbbe_e9c1cb2b28f5493e878c1f11d0770f3e~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_575,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Porscha Sterling</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>